Archive for May, 2013


TED Talk

Wow. Watching TED talk was amazing. I strongly suggest watching this video if you have not watched it already. I learned so much from it, and he put a lot of it into a context that is easy to understand. He was completely right when he said that dominant groups don’t think about themselves when talking about race, gender, etc. People are compared to that dominant group, and it isn’t right. As he went on he talked about how the victims are the ones being blamed for violence, and this isn’t right. The victim has done nothing wrong, so the questions and blame should be pointed toward the attacker. It is sad to think that when women try to stand up for themselves and other people they are called such awful names. This shouldn’t happen. Women should be able to stand up for what they believe and not be ridiculed. He makes so many good points throughout this speech, and I liked when he said “men should stand with women not against” because we should all be seen as equals. We are living together and we should fight together. We shouldn’t be fighting against each other. It doesn’t make sense to me why men and women fight against each other. He spoke about bystanders and made great points. No one should watch another person get abused and just stay quiet. I loved that he quoted Martin Luther King Jr. It tied in well with what he was saying and it really made you think about many incidents that could have been prevented if people just spoke up.

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(photo is from the article)

The article Changing Sex, Changing Teams is a must read. It is sad to read that Tony gave up something that he loves so much because he was afraid of being bullied. I think there should be a law allowing anyone that is transgendered to play sports in school and in general. It is sad to see that no more than 12 states have just made changes to their rules to allow transgendered people to play in sports. I just don’t understand. 12 out of 50 states have changed rules… There is so much wrong with that. Every state should have rules changed because everyone deserves to play a sport if they choose, but they should also assure the students that they can play without being bullied. If the bullying was controlled maybe more transgendered athletes would continue to play in sports, instead of quitting. The article ended with Tony saying, “To be who I am, I’ve had to give up something that’s really big in my life.” I think this is really sad because no one should ever give up what they love doing to be who they truly are.

Also reading the article I was shocked to see that Olympics and NCAA have people take such drastic measures so that they are allowed to play sports. The article said “The International Olympic Committee initially required transgender athletes who want to compete in the Olympics to undergo a full sex-change operation and hormone therapy. The National Collegiate Athletic Association requires male-to-female transgender athletes to complete a year of hormone therapy before they may compete on a women’s team.” This was all done to ensure that everything was “fair,” but is it really fair for the person that has to go through that. Why should they put their bodies through that just to play or compete in the sport that they love so much? What if they never wanted to go through with the surgery or hormone therapy? I just didn’t find that fair to the athlete in anyway.

The woman that wrote Pictures of people who mock me was inspiring. It just goes to show that if you don’t fit in with the “ideal” look you will be judged. It is so sad to see that people say that she is “lazy” and other terrible things. Sadly this is the typical reaction when they see someone that they believe to be “overweight.” People in today’s society rarely think that someone could have an illness that is linked to weight gain. The woman said that eventually she was diagnosed with hypothyroidism, which caused her to gain weight. People never took into perspective that she could have an illness, and that upsets me because people shouldn’t be so quick to judge another person.

Another thing that bothered me was that one of the pictures was about two cops and one of them had his hat over her head, and both of them were making faces. Police should be looking out for citizens not making fun of them for being different… This is awful, and it made me extremely angry. What gives them that right? Nothing. They should never judge or make fun of anyone because of their size, and that goes for every other person out there because you never know their story.

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(photo is from the article)

This woman was so inspiring because instead of being hurt and angry she took on a challenge. As she said in her article “I’m fine with who I am and don’t need anyone’s approval to live my life. I only get angry when I hear someone comment about my weight and the image does not reflect the criticism.” I think that more people should be okay with who they are because the people that are going to judge you are only trying to make themselves feel better by hurting you. If you choose to not let it affect you because you are proud of who you are, then they will gain nothing because all those people are looking for is a reaction.

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Without a doubt there is a wage gap between men and women in the workplace. Why? Because even in the work fields there is segregation. Whether within the same job type or over a wide range of jobs, there is a major difference between the salary of a male and a female. This is because when a job is considered “masculine” it is mostly made up of males, but if there are more females that are working in that field then the salary becomes lower and is considered “feminine”.

What happened to equality? Will we ever get it? Doubtful. Sometimes if given the chance women are given a job are a CEO, for example, in a failing company. This means that she is being set up for inevitably failing in her position. Many women aren’t even given that chance. Many women are held back by “barriers” that stop them from moving forward in their careers

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Rape is Not a Joke!

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After listening to both of the stories the two girls told, I can’t believe people use the word rape like it is a joke. This isn’t right. People shouldn’t just toss out the word because they don’t know the story behind everyone around them. It is hard to believe one of the girls lost some of her friends because they wouldn’t stop using rape in a joking context. This isn’t what should happen in our society or anywhere for that matter. This is a serious matter, and it is definitely nothing to joke about.  As stated in the article A Rape A Minute, A Thousand Corpses A Year, “every 6.2 minutes a rape is reported.” That means that everyday about 8,928 rapes are report, but the article states that the estimated “total could be 5 times higher” because many rapes aren’t even reported. Rape can happen to people of any age, which makes this topic an extremely serious matter. In the article Solnit talked about a 4 year old that was raped and also an 83 year old. How can people so many people use the word rape as a joke when in reality it has an effect on so many people?

No one should have to walk around waiting for someone to use this work in a joke or out of context. No one deserves to have flashbacks or triggers just because another person thought it would be funny to say. So the next time you see someone use the word rape out of context I encourage you to stand up for the people that have gone through it.

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